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Sharing posts I love {week 1} …

I’ve learned (or more like re-learned) something about myself in the last 10 days. Whenever I don’t really want to do something, I avoid it at all costs. Whether I’m truly trying to avoid it… or in the case of my NaNoWriMo novel, am completely stuck with what I want to do and where I want to take my character next.

Oh well. Inspiration will come to me this weekend. I have much of it dedicated to writing, so it’s going to happen.

Or I’ll finally balance my checkbook again {another thing I’ve been avoiding.}

 

So anyway… In my effort to avoid writing, I’ve been reading some really good blog posts. So I thought I’d share them… partly so that you could read them, but also so that I don’t forget about them either. That’s how much I liked them. :) I don’t know if I’ll be doing this every week or what not, but at least you get a glimpse into some of the things that I’ve been reading… and maybe meet a couple new bloggers that you didn’t know previously! {Oh and I’ll try not to include too much here. Um. Yeah.}

 

The first post moved me to tears – literally – because of the story I’d been following. If you have read anything about Margaret’s wish after losing her brother Jack in the floods a few weeks ago, you know that she really wanted to see Justin Bieber. Well, Margaret will get to do just that. {And maybe even meet him!}

I think God was also speaking {strongly} to me this week as I was drawn to a couple of blog posts about being single. They are 100% completely different from one another – but really showed me that I’m not alone in my feelings. A friend sent me a link to a blog post that drew me in from the first sentence {The thing about being single is that sometimes, it feels like a disease.} The blog post is by Rachel and is called “diagnosis: Single“. I think I have to read this and remind myself of this daily.

The other post I read on this topic made me laugh… almost out loud. :) Charlotte from My Pixie Blog was syndicated over on BlogHer for her post “What NOT to Say to your Single Friends“. Please read this. Seriously. And then don’t say any of those things to me or anyone you know that’s single ever again. I mean it. {And I’m totally a new follower of Charlotte’s – thanks BlogHer!}

After the things that I had been through earlier this year – and now feeling much more like myself again – I am proud of my friend Amanda for writing about Being strong by admitting you’re weak. If you are struggling with depression or feelings of anxiety and sadness, please talk to someone. Tell them what’s happening, how you are feeling – because if there’s one thing that I learned in the last year… you’re not alone.

A post that I want to remember… and maybe tell everyone in my family about someday} is if you aren’t a scrapbooker – digital or otherwise – to write emails to your child as they grow up. I think this is one of the best ideas that I’ve seen in a long time. And something totally up my alley if I have kids…

…which KLZ over at Taming Insanity totally prepared me by sharing about what REALLY to expect while you are expecting. The information here is priceless. And I have to thank her numerous times for not including anything about labor. Really. I thank you.

 

So that’s it for the first installment of sharing the posts I love. What are your favorite blog posts this week? Leave them in the comments {don’t worry, I’ll be REALLY careful going through my spam if they don’t post}… can’t wait to read what you love too! Or maybe I should join Liz @bellebeandog for Blog Boycott Day today. Not that I needed any other reason to procrastinate. :)

#SummerBlogSocial: Do I dare have goals???

I’ve never actually written blog “goals” down before. Yes, there are things that I would like to do and I know what they are in the back of my head… but if you know me and my “shiny things” mind where I only concentrate on what’s happening in the here and now… well, you can see why I haven’t accomplished much of anything as far as organization around here. :)

So I’m writing things down.

Really.

And I’m going to work on them… in the next 6 months or so.

Really I am.

What… you don’t believe me? {Yeah, I probably wouldn’t either!} ;-)

Ok, so here are my 7 goals for my blog in the next 6 months… {because all good things come in 7′s right?!}

  • Learn more about SEO {Search Engine Optimization} and integrate more of what I learn into my blog. One of my (still) most visited blog posts is “All About Steve” because I used a few good key words there. Tara from “Feels Like Home” is my go to gal… even posting a little bit more about SEO basics this week.
  • When I’m talking about products in my blog posts, to start using affiliate links a little bit more. That way, if you *want* to buy something that I’m talking about, you can help me out a little too. {And hopefully make this blog break even someday!} :) Hopefully I’ll be able to learn a little more about it all from AngEngland in her monetize your site post today.
  • Finish putting all of my posts into appropriate categories… and assign tags to them. Might make it easier for me to find things later too.
  • Work on getting a collection of pictures together (or free sites) to use more pictures in my posts.
  • Re-create my “About Me” page, get rid of the “About the blog” page and create a disclosure / contact info. (All things that Eli | Rose Social told me to work on… and I just haven’t put the time into it.
  • Start (and finish) a 365 series on this blog. Whether it’s pictures, Pinterest items, or what not.
  • Get a real blogging calendar together. What I’ve been using doesn’t work for me… and have messed up on Wisdom Wednesdays more than once now. :( (By the way, email me (dutchbeingme (at) gmail (dot) com) if you’d like to be a part of the Wisdom Wednesday series… I’d love to have you!!

Do you have blog goals? Should we work together on this?

Summer Blog Social prompt…

  • What are your blogging & social media goals? Is there an area you feel is keeping you from achieving these goals that you would like advice on?

Things I don't understand {Google+}…

I’m taking another stab at posting with the Summer Blog Social today… and sharing a piece of social media that absolutely baffles me. I mean, like I sit there utterly confused ½ the time.

Google+

The newest, latest and greatest social media outlet from the company that {along with Apple} will likely rule the world someday.

And I don’t get it.

Yes, you can post just like to Facebook. And it’s without the annoying algorithm no one knows how to define that limits you from seeing all the posts from your friends. And without the character limitation there (or on twitter). It’s like you can post an entire blog post/rant/thought there.

You can put people in circles to define where you know them from… and how much you really want them to see.

You get all kinds of creeper people adding you to their circles.

And then… when your social media friends add you to their circles, you’re not completely sure it’s them because you’ve never known their full name outside of twitter.

There is one thing I really do like… the hangouts (like group skype). I was able to sit and talk with Sunday a few weeks ago, right before I left on my trip to Tennessee, and got to catch up with her for about an hour (not to mention “meet” her two boys as well.)

I’m still undecided about whether I’ll use it though. Still not sure I see its benefit when everyone I know is on Facebook and not really looking at moving to the Google option.

However, I’ve been told that this is the future of social media.

Is there any redeeming factor with Google Plus that I’m missing? Do you like it? Do you hate it?

Summer Blog Social prompt…
Tell us about an element or two of your blog or social media presence that you are unsure of and would like opinions on.

What I like {and dislike} in a blog…

This week, Liz from Belle, Bean & Chicago Dog and Jessica from Four Plus an Angel are hosting the Summer Blog Social. If you aren’t familiar with it, I encourage you to participate… find new friends and write out some new goals.

Today I decided to write the 5 things I like and 5 things I dislike seeing on blogs when I’m checking them out for the first time. I’d say that I’m taking a little liberty with the prompt… but still covering what really it’s about.

Also I’m looking to you for advice after you read this… what things do you like (and, um… dislike) when you are looking around *my* blog here?

5 Things I Like when finding a new blog…

  • Pictures. I *love* seeing pictures in blog posts {and yes, I’m totally guilty of not putting more of them in my blog posts!} I think that it helps add a little something to the post itself – or even enhance it if the picture directly applies.
  • Social Media Icons in an easy to find place. I love to communicate on twitter… so the faster I can find them (and clearer they are) the better! {Just remember that not everyone knows what each symbol means… including the little twitter bird!) :)
  • Search Box. I especially like this if I remember that you wrote something, but not necessarily when you wrote it. Make sure that it’s up toward the top of the page.
  • Favorite or Best posts area. {Another thing I have yet to do.} I *love* seeing this category in the Nav Bar (the bar typically across the top of the page)… it shows what you are proud of and maybe what has resonated most with your readers.
  • A well designed header can (and sometimes will) make the difference between someone staying or going. If you want to look serious, make your blog header match who you are. (And you don’t have to spend a lot to do… there are great designers at all price ranges!)

5 Things I’m not so fond of when finding a new blog…

  • Excerpts only on the home page. Going to the home page of the blog and only seeing excerpts is my biggest pet peeve. I’ve already arrived at your blog, let me read your latest post without having to click around. I get distracted easily. You will lose me. (And don’t get me started about excerpts in the RSS feed for my google reader. Unfollow, every.single.time.)
  • Cluttered columns. Especially too many blog buttons. If you aren’t participating in something actively… or going to that conference… remove the button. The cleaner your columns are – and even a little “white” (blank) space, the easier it is for me to read.
  • The “Category Cloud”. I think it’s a waste of space – not to mention a mess – to show what you blog about most being bigger and lesser blogged items smaller. What I (and others) want to see might only have been categorized once making it much harder to locate.
  • Disclosure Policy located in the Nav Bar. This is one of my biggest annoyances. Yes, if blogging is your job, you should have a disclosure policy. But it doesn’t need to be front and center. Put a link to it at the bottom of your contact page or in your footer.
  • Not having an “About Me” introduction (snippet or box) on your home page. It’s your space… and I’m there to learn about YOU – give me a reason to get to know you! :) {And yes, again… totally guilty. Working on it.}

So that’s what I like and dislike… what about you? Anything here you really like or dislike?

The prompt from Summer Blog Social…

  • When you visit a blog, what areas – besides the main post – do you check out? Do you visit the Nav Bar pages? Look at the sidebars? Check for a list of categories or tags? Talk about the elements of a website that are most important to you.

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